Everyone loves the concept of a floor outlet, right?
Super easy, right?
You might think it’s as simple as putting it “right there.” Except the outlet needs to be based on the sofa placement, which depends on the sofa size, which depends on the size of the room, which is dictated by the framing, which determines where the floor joists run, which determines where the outlet can go, which ties into the electrical plan.
And we’re not done.
The outlet can’t be covered by the area rug. The lamp cord has to reach it. The finish needs to work with the rest of the house. It needs to sit correctly with the finished hardwood floor.
All of that for one outlet.
That’s usually how I explain the difference between an interior designer and a decorator.
Having a good eye and being able to pull a room together are valuable skills. But interior design goes much deeper than that. I have a formal education in design, I’ve been in the industry since I was 18, and I spent years as a project manager for Grau Building Company overseeing million-dollar construction projects.
So when I look at a room, yes, I’m thinking about how it should look and function, and I’m also thinking about framing, plumbing, electrical, mechanicals, sequencing and what has to happen first so the whole thing works when it’s done.

Built-ins take drawings and a cabinet order. Styling the shelves is the fun part, and sometimes that’s all a room needs.
Sometimes You Really Do Just Need a Decorator
When I get a call from a prospective client, I ask for all the information they have at that point: budget, scope, timeline, wish list, history, whatever they know.
I’m listening for words like “cosmetic refresh” versus “full remodel,” because those tell me pretty quickly what kind of help they’re looking for.
If you need someone to style your bookshelves, help with paint or make a few decorating decisions, a decorator may be a quicker and less expensive option.
I can style your bookshelves too. I just might not have the time to take on a project where that’s the entire scope, or there may be a premium for a very small task.
Sometimes the scope changes, too.
I’ve started projects as the designer and watched them scale back because of budget or timeline. Maybe we started out talking about a full kitchen remodel and eventually landed on repainting the existing cabinets.
At that point, the client may not need a full design engagement anymore.
That’s fine. The point is to match the service to the project.
Construction Experience Changes the Conversation
The difference becomes more important when the project moves into construction.
A designer with construction experience can talk to trades on site using the correct terminology, understand codes and make recommendations when something doesn’t go according to plan.
You know enough about the build process to understand the problem and help identify another solution instead of relying on someone else to “just figure it out.”
I had a perfect example of this at the Grau Design Studio.
I really, really wanted the main kitchen and work area to be open.
Then demo started, and we found a steel post right in the middle of the room. It wasn’t visible before.
I know what’s involved with moving a steel post. Hint: it’s a lot and not fun.

When something hidden shows up during demo, I’d rather work with it than hide it.
So I worked around it.
We turned that area into a built-in nook, and I had a false post built on the other side so the whole thing would feel symmetrical and intentional.
Now it’s one of the first things people see when they walk in, and it’s a cute little display spot for a few of our awards!
That’s a good example of knowing what it would take to achieve the original vision and being reasonable enough to pivot.

My own kitchen. The hood is the part everyone notices. The ventilation plan behind it is the part that has to be right.
There Are Decisions Clients Shouldn’t Have to Know to Ask About
I once worked with a client whose contractor was a little more handyman than GC.
The new kitchen had a 48-inch gas range, and he wasn’t planning to install makeup air, a dedicated fresh-air intake that replaces the air exhausted by your kitchen range hood.
I brought it up because there’s an important HVAC code involved. Without it, we could have been looking at a serious health hazard and liability, and the client was thankful I caught it.
Would every decorator know to ask about that? Probably not. And to be fair, they may never need to.
On a full remodel, there are decisions happening behind the finished room that require a working knowledge of how the house and its systems operate.
The Order of Operations Matters Too
A big part of construction experience is knowing what comes next.
Clients are often surprised by how early some decisions have to be made.
If we’re at the framing stage of a new kitchen, the cabinetry and appliances already need to be selected, drawn out and probably ordered so the framers know where to put the walls.
Then come rough-ins.
That means plumbing and electrical fixtures need to be chosen and accurately located, even when there’s nothing in the room except 2x4s.
A late change can affect a lot more than the one thing you’re changing.
Move a light fixture after the fact and now you may have an electrician, drywall repair, painting and a new installation involved.
Knowing the order of operations and the deadlines for those decisions helps keep the project moving and can save a lot of time, money and frustration later.

The outlets land inside the paneling, not across a seam. That gets decided long before anyone picks the pillows.
So, Interior Designer or Decorator?
If you’re looking for an interior designer in Durham, NC, start with what you’re doing.
If you’re talking about styling, furnishings, paint or a cosmetic refresh, a decorator may be exactly who you need.
If you’re talking about a full remodel, cabinetry, plumbing, electrical, structural changes or coordinating with multiple trades, that’s where an interior designer with construction knowledge can bring a very different skill set to the project.
Ask how they work with contractors.
Ask whether they understand construction sequencing.
Ask how they handle something unexpected once the walls are open.
Ask whether they can make recommendations on site when the original plan doesn’t work.
For me, formal education matters. Construction experience matters. So does knowing when a client doesn’t need all of that and would be perfectly well served by a decorator.
I can offer decorating and design. The right answer depends on the project.





